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"If there has ever been a time for Jewish men to stand together, to be together, to work together as men in making a difference in the society and in this movement, now is that time."

Help support the Brotherhood by becoming a member. The Brotherhood sponsors, among other things, events such as: Scholar-in-Residence, Dinner/ Movie Night and the Commuter Collection. We also cook at all congregational family functions (e.g. Purim Carnival and Mitzvah Connection).

If you would like to connect with other members of our congregation in an informal and fun way, consider joining the Brotherhood. Dues for first year members of the Brotherhood are waived. Help make a difference and connect with your fellow congregants. Join the Brotherhood!!

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BROTHERHOOD NEWS

We have a wonderful speaker coming to B’nai Israel on Sunday, March 28, as part of our Brotherhood Sunday Morning Speaker Series…

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Print Journalism in the New Decade:
The News isn’t all that Bad!!
Sunday Morning
Speaker Series
Presented by
The B’nai Israel Brotherhood

 

 

Jay Lauf, publisher of The Atlantic Monthly magazine, will join us on:
Sunday, March 28th at 9:45 a.m.

 

Mr. Lauf will briefly discuss the storied history of The Atlantic Monthly magazine, a venerable resource for political news established in 1857, and follow up with a fascinating look at the future prospects of print media in the ever-changing environment of news reporting. He will also open the floor for what should be a lively Q & A session.

His successful career in media has included ground-breaking work at Wired Magazine, serving progressively as advertising director, associate publisher and publisher. During his tenure with Wired, Lauf was instrumental in the title’s reinvigoration following 2001’s dot-com collapse.
Complimentary breakfast will be provided starting at 9:15 a.m.

And, of course, do not miss our annual “Say No to Bagels’ Pesach Brotherhood breakfast on Saturday, April 3 after services.

Our Brotherhood Breakfast Pledge Program, which began two years ago, has now afforded our Saturday morning worshippers the opportunity to nosh without exchanging gelt on Shabbat. If you wish to sponsor a Brotherhood Breakfast, please see Steve Verbil each Shabbat or email me jim@unionmachinery.com. You may sponsor a week ‘just because’ or to remember a special or significant event in your life. The cost is $75 and we greatly thank last year’s sponsors and look forward to their leadership again in 2010.

At Brotherhood we measure our success by the mitzvahs we make and the joy they bring…come on out and lend a hand in the company of some really great guys who love to have fun!

L’shalom
Jim Greenberg
Brotherhood President
jim@unionmachinery.com



Bread and Torah

Rabbis Jonathan Rubenstein and Linda Motzkin
Friday, November 13 – Sunday, November 15

asJoin us for a taste (quite literally) of hands-on Judaism! Our teachers are a husband and wife clergy team at Temple Sinai of Saratoga Springs, NY. Rabbi Rubenstein is a baker and co-founder of Slice of Heaven Breads, and Rabbi Motzkin has trained as a soferet – a Torah scribe – and will be bringing her Community Torah Project, an incredible opportunity to contribute to the making of a Sefer Torah. They will also be visiting our Nursery School and Religious School. We will be able to enjoy the challah being baked throughout their visit.

Friday, November 13

The Mitzvah of Challah with Rabbi Jonathan Rubenstein

12:00 p.m. Traditionally, bakers set aside a portion of the dough when making challah. As we prepare loaves of challah for Shabbat, we will discuss the meaning of this practice and explore how our awareness of the provenance of our food can enrich our experience of Shabbat.
   

Kabbalat Shabbat

5:30 p.m. Pre-Oneg
6:00 p.m. Shabbat Worship
Rabbis Rubenstein and Motzkin will speak
   

Saturday, November 14

9:30 a.m. Torah Study Our artists-in-residence will lead us
4:45 p.m. The 613th Mitzvah: Hands-On Torah
Rabbi Motzkin will lead this Havdalah Happening. How often does one get the opportunity to participate in the making of a Torah scroll? Come learn about and participate in the process of creating a Torah scroll. You’ll have the opportunity to be part of the “writing” of a scroll by checking a letter, verse, paragraph or column of a scroll in progress, or to assist in the creation of a panel of parchment from a cleaned animal hide.



Brotherhood Looking For A Few Good Men And Women

In honor of  Veterans Day, Memorial Day and Flag Day members of the Brotherhood placed American Flags at the graves of B'nai Israel veterans.  If a member of your family served in the Armed Services, please contact the temple office or Ken Rabine (203-268-8780 or Kenthebean@aol.com) to add their name to our list.  There are many individuals who have markings on their stones to let us know of their WWI, WWII and Vietnam involvement.  Unfortunately there are also many men and women who according to their age should be and may have served our country.  Please let us know so your friends and family members will be honored for their service.

Thank you.

Ken and the Brotherhood

 



BROTHERHOOD PRAYER PROJECT

Have you ever felt that the traditional liturgy in our prayer book doesn't quite capture your innermost prayers or feelings? Or, perhaps, you feel like you have a different prayer in your heart. If so, now is your chance. If there is enough interest out there, the Brotherhood Prayer Project is going to put together a prayer booklet or pamphlet consisting of prayers written by our very own congregants; sort of like the conventional Sisterhood recipe book, but a book of prayers instead.

We are interested in submissions from all members of the synagogue, not just Brotherhood members. We are interested in personal prayers, but not personalized prayers; that is, we are looking for prayers that have some universal appeal. We plan to collect the prayers and publish them in a booklet which would be made available to the entire congregation. We are also considering establishing an informal editorial board, consisting of several Brotherhood members and the Rabbis.

If you are interested in submitting a prayer for publication in the Brotherhood prayer booklet, please let us know by sending an email to Stu Kovar at skovar@optonline.net, or by calling Stu at 374-9154. If there's enough interest, we'll take the next step, and get back in touch with you and ask you to send us your prayer for publication. Here's your chance to give voice to that inner voice!


BROTHERHOOD HAGGADAH COLLECTION

The Brotherhood is planning on launching a new Brotherhood Haggadah Collection. The idea is to provide a haggadah lending library to synagogue members who wish to explore using a new or different haggadah for their Passover seder.

The purpose of the Brotherhood Haggadah Collection would be twofold. First, it would make available to synagogue members a diverse collection of single haggadot for perusal by members who are looking into using a different haggadah.

Second, it would make available different sets of haggadot to be borrowed and used by members at their Passover seder as a means of "trying out" a new haggadah before having to purchase the whole set, or for using a different haggadah at their seder on a one-time basis.

Synagogue members who have tired of or outgrown their haggadot could donate their sets to the lending library. Donation cards would be included in each set indicating the donor. The Brotherhood Haggadah Collection would be put on display at least once a year prior to Passover.

We are now looking for donations. Do you have a single haggadah or a set of haggadot that you no longer use and would be willing to donate to the collection? If so, please Stu Kovar.


BROTHERHOOD COMMUTER LIBRARY

As we return the Torah to the ark, we pray:
"It is a tree of life to those who hold it fast, and all who cling to it find happiness.
Its ways are ways of pleasantness, and all its paths are peace."

Rabbi Eric H. Yoffie, President of the Union of American Hebrew Congregations, has called upon Reform Jews to engage in ongoing study by reading at least four Jewish books per year. The Brotherhood has launched the Commuter Collection to assist those temple members with long commutes in achieving this goal.

The Commuter Collection is also intended to make those long commutes more productive, enlightening and enjoyable. To that end, the Commuter Collection will also include Jewish music. The Brotherhood Commuter Collection is open to the entire congregation and, of course, can be listened to while jogging, working out or any other time.

The Brotherhood Commuter Collection may be found in the Temple library and is open to the entire congregation. If you take out a CD or audiocassette and wish to share your comments or opinion (your "review"), please send me an email, and I will try to include your comments in the next email that I distribute. If you have any audiocassettes or CDs that you would like to donate to the Commuter Collection, please send Stu Kovar e-mail or give him a call at 203-374-9154.

NEW ADDITION:
We have a wonderful, new addition to the Commuter Collection:

"The Genesis of Justice" by Alan M. Dershowitz
In this book, Alan Dershowitz, the world famous criminal defense lawyer and Harvard Law School Professor, examines ten stories from the Book of Genesis, which, according to Mr. Dershowitz, show the Bible's preoccupation with justice. He then relates how these ideas of justice have shaped modern moral and legal thought. Does God struggle along with his creations to establish laws that are just and fair? Does God actually learn from his creations? These are just two of the questions explored in this work, through the ten Bible stories selected, which are divided into thought-provoking chapters, some examples of which are: God Threatens-and Backs Down (Adam and Eve); Cain Murders -and Walks; God Overreacts-And Floods the World, etc.

CURRENT COMMUTER COLLECTION:
AUDIO BOOK:

"As A Driven Leaf", by Milton Steinberg.
This is an explosive, touching story of Elisha Ben Abuyah, the real life Talmudic sage who experiences a crisis of faith in the face of political tyranny and terrible human suffering. A historical novel, As A Driven Leaf offers an unparalleled view of the conflicts between Judaism and the pagan world, from the brilliant legal debates of the Sanhedrin to the bloody gladiatorial contests of the Roman arena. The tapes were donated by our Co-President, David Beier.

"The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay" by Michael Chabon.
The book is included on the List of Significant Jewish Books prepared by the Union of American Hebrew Congregations and comes recommended by Rabbi Greene. According to the UAHC guide: "The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay" is a novel about magic, manhood, superheroes, and growing up Jewish in America in the 1930s and 1940s. Sammy Klayman is a young man from Brooklyn with a love for pulp fiction and comic books, and is struggling with his sexual identity. Josef Kavalier is an apprentice magician and an artist who escapes Nazi occupied Czechoslovakia by hiding in a coffin along with the Golem of Prague. The novel traces the two cousins from 1939 to 1954 as they break into publishing and confront love, war, and loss."

"Engaging Torah, Contemporary Insights on Tape"
It is a boxed set of 28 audiocassette tapes produced by the Union of American Hebrew Congregations in cooperation with the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion. The tapes explore each parashah in great depth and include such leading scholars as Eric H. Yoffie, Lawrence Kushner, Dru Greenwood, Kerry M. Olitzky and Ellen Umansky.

King David: The Real Life of the Man Who Ruled Israel by Jonathan Kirsch, performed by the author. This eight-tape biography offers an intriguing and fascinating look at a complex and controversial individual. The tapes were donated by our Co-President, David Beier.

 

"My Grandfather's Blessings:
Stories of Strength, Refuge, and Belonging
" by Rachel Naomi Remen.
When the author was young, she was caught between two different views of life: that of her rabbi grandfather and that of her highly academic, research-oriented parents, who believed religion was the opiate of the masses. The author and her grandfather walked through life on different paths, with the author being the academic achiever, who devotes her life to helping others in her profession as a medical doctor, and with her rabbinic grandfather who sees the world through a more divine interpretation. The stories here will bring a smile and evoke a tear, as science, medicine, religion and spirituality merge together. The author embraces the world and the reader with her compassion and love for humanity. As you listen to these heart-warming stories, you will be left with a better understanding of life's true meaning and purpose.

"Simple Kabbalah" by Kim Zetter. Performed by Theodore Bikel.
An accessible guide to the complex principles and history of Kabbalah, a Jewish mystical belief system. The listener learns how to practice the wisdom of Kabbalah in everyday life through meditation and exercises for quieting the mind and developing awareness.


"Walking the Bible" by Bruce Feiler
A 2002-3 selection of the B'nai Israel Book Club!
(Narrated by Bruce Feiler, Published by Harper Audio, 6 hours, 4 Cassettes, abridgement approved by author, Dolby B NR)
This book is recommended in the "Significant Jewish Books" column of the Fall 2001 issue of "Reform Judaism" magazine. The cassette jacket describes the book as follows: "One part adventure story, one part archaeological detective work, one part spiritual exploration, "Walking The Bible" vividly recounts an inspiring personal odyssey -- by foot, jeep, rowboat, and camel -- through the greatest stories ever told. ... Both a pulse-pounding adventure and an uplifting spiritual quest, Bruce Feiler's "Walking The Bible" is a stunning and elevating work of courage, scholarship, and heart that revisits the inscrutable desert landscape where the world's great religions were born -- and uncovers fresh answers to the most profound questions of the human spirit."

 

MUSIC (CDs):
In case you were unable to participate in the Scholar in Residence Program, or you just wish to hear him again, the Brotherhood has purchased two Danny Maseng CDs, and made them available as part of the Brotherhood Commuter Collection in the library. The first CD is "Wasting Time with Harry Davidowitz", which is his critically-acclaimed, one-man, off-Broadway musical journey of a Jewish soul. The second CD is "Soul on Fire" and contains such "hits" as "Ma Tovu" (which we sing as part of our services every week and which was written and inspiringly performed by Danny Maseng) and "Sim Shalom". Contributing to this collection is a great way to give a meaningful and lasting gift to the Congregation for all to enjoy while honoring someone or something important in your life.



"Live in the Fiddler's House"

Itzhak Perlman
This album follows the Emmy award winning 'In The Fiddler's House' which has sold over 160,000 copies in the US alone. The CD was recorded live in Radio City Music Hall with Itzhak Perlman and the same critically acclaimed Klezmer bands who joined him on the original 'In The Fiddler's House' This live concert finds Perlman playing with even greater freedom and fire than on his previous Jewish albums. Joined by Brave Old World, Andy Statman, Klezmatics and Klezmer Conservatory.


"Renewal of Spirit"

Debbie Friedman
'Renewal of the Spirit' is a Healing service, and has settings of prayers, and original lyrics meant to aid in dealing with loss and spiritual renewal. This is perhaps the most touching of Debbie's albums."

 

"New Jewish Tunes, Ruach 5761/2001"
The newest and hottest CD of Jewish folk/rock out there! Includes hits by Debbie Friedman, e18hteen with Dan Nichols, Jeff Klepper, Mah Tovu, Steve Dropkin, Peri Smilow, Rick Recht, Danny Maseng, Cantor Wally, Julie Silver, Craig Taubman and Beth Schafer!


"The Jazz Service"

Cantor Bruce Benson and Kenny G
Bruce Benson and Kenny G have culled Jazz and Rock elements into an alternative sound for the Friday Evening service. Kenny G makes the liturgy live and breathe through his creative talents and electrifying performance.

 



"With Every Breath"

The Music of Shabbat at Congregation B'nai Jeshurun
Every Friday night, 2,000 Manhattanites crowd B'nai Jeshurun to experience this music. It's a spiritual Happening. Let these 12 sacred songs mark your journey through the powerful beauty of Shabbat.

"The Rock Service"
Cantor Bruce Benson and Tzur Yisrael with the Youth Choir of Congregation B'nai Israel, Cantor Sheri Blum, Director. Of course, no collection would be complete without our Temple's very own CD!!!

 

 

If you are interested in purchasing a copy of any of these albums, click on the Jewish Music.com button near the top of this page. Temple will get a 5% donation. You will also find many other wonderful CD's, tapes and sheet music there!

If you would like more information about the Commuter Collection, or if you would like to make a donation, please contact Stu Kovar at 374-9154.


MEN'S SPIRITUALITY GROUP
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The Spirituality Group is a place for "always informal, always interesting" discussions about how spirituality fits in with our hectic 21st century lives. It's moderated by Rabbi Jim Prosnit - and I can tell you from personal experience that the conversations, while moderated, often take off in unexpected, fascinating tangents.

If you haven't been to one before, I recommend giving it a try. You'll engage in some interesting discussion, and get a chance to meet and renew friendships with other members of the Congregation. Please RSVP to Lynn at 336-1858.

 

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