Family
Education
at Congregation B'nai Israel
Family
Education at B'nai Israel
The
Family Education Program at B'nai Israel strives to ensure that Jewish family
learning is constantly occurring because we know, as Jews, that this is essential
to the maintenance of Jewish values, identity and continuity. Our goal is to create
a community where people can share in experiences of Jewish family learning and
become energized by it. The programs we provide are meant as opportunities for
individuals to develop a spiritual, educational and social connection to Jewish
life and to the Congregation, as well as to integrate Judaism into people's daily
lives. Family
Education at B'nai Israel enables parents to teach their children about Judaism
so that they can create meaningful Jewish rituals, observances and traditions
in their own homes. It encourages parents to assume the role of being their children's
primary educator, while encouraging parents to engage in Jewish learning and observance
for themselves as well. Family
Education programming at B'nai Israel connects adults and directly engages children
of all ages and asks them to consider what it is to be a Jew in ways that are
meaningful and enriching for everyone. Our Family Education program recognizes
that learning is and should be lifelong, so regardless of the definition of your
"family", whether someone's children have long departed from the nest or one is
just starting a family, opportunities for Jewish growth and connection are designed
to make Judaism relevant to all. Cognizant of our rich and full Jewish calendar,
Family Education provides activities for congregants to come together as a large
and unified community as well as offering more intimate settings for specific
groups throughout the year. At
B'nai Israel, many Family Education programs are integrated into the Religious
School and Nursery School. These programs directly correlate to the material and
curricula of the specific classes. For example, the Kitah Alef (first grade) curriculum
in the Religious School concentrates on Genesis. Each year we offer a Torah workshop
corresponding to the particular Torah portions being studied. Kitah Bet (second
grade) focuses on Israel, so Family Education always plans an Israeli picnic at
the time of Yom Haatzmaut, which includes Israeli foods, songs, dancing art activities
and discussion. As
the gimel (third grade) class is the year for students to receive their Hebrew
names, a whole workshop on the significance of naming and names is made a part
of the studies. Likewise, the Nursery School does a complete unit on tzedakah,
and what accompanies that is a program that focuses on the word mitzvah and the
broad definition that comes with it. Family
Education seeks to foster connections outside of the classroom as well. Monthly
Tot Shabbat and library Story Hours bring together Preschool families to make
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Thirteen Mitzvot project engages parents and their B'nai Mitzvah age children
in fulfilling mitzvot as a means to underscoring the significance of mitzvah in
Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Monthly
Shabbat celebrations at the Temple called Mishpacha Shabbat bring families with
preschoolers and elementary school age children together for dinner and a Shabbat
service geared specifically toward young children. The
monthly Coffee and Conversation group is made up of many retired adults who come
together to socialize and continue their lifelong pursuit of Jewish knowledge.
The weekly Nosh and Drash, a thought provoking discussion, debate and exploration
of our sacred texts is made up of an intergenerational group of men and women
who love the informal exchange of ideas. Our
Family Education programming even ventures beyond our Synagogue with a Family
Kallah (retreat) in the Berkshires. The weekend seeks to provide fun, spiritual
growth, fellowship and family camaraderie. Family
Education also endeavors to weave the Jewish calendar into our daily lives. To
that end, for every major Jewish festival, there exists a family event that capitalizes
on bringing together the community in joy and celebration. An evening of Sukkah
decorating and a Sukkot picnic is one example. The Shavuot picnic and flower planting
is another. Family services are a part of both of these programs that offer congregants
a chance to socialize, share a seudah (a ritual meal) and be spiritually enlivened.
Family
Education at B'nai Israel is often a collaborative effort. The Mitzvah Connection,
our annual Social Action Fair, draws on the efforts of the Family Education Committee,
the Social Action Committee and the Brotherhood to achieve its success. The fun
and folly of the Purim Carnival is a joint Brotherhood and Family Education function.
The
Habitat for Humanity projects, in which the Congregation has participated for
the past six years, call upon every Temple committee and auxiliary to make a commitment:
the Nursery School children preparing lunches for the volunteers, the Religious
School students collecting tzedakah in Habitat House banks, BIFTY organizing youth
group build days and every Synagogue committee signing up for a volunteer Sunday.
In
this large institution where there are so many people with so many diverse interests
and needs, Family Education aims to provide a source for intimate and focused
possibilities. Family Education at B'nai Israel maintains a philosophy and outlook
open to new ideas and opportunities that reflect the character and interests of
our Congregation and we hope you will consider joining us at several of our programs
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FAMILY
EDUCATION CALENDAR
MISHPACHA
SHABBAT
Friday, MArch 12 @ 6:30 p.m.
Join our first Mishpacha (family) Shabbat of the New Year. Be part of a warm and informal evening welcoming in Shabbat and welcoming new friends and old friends back to B’nai Israel after a summer away. Share a delicious Shabbat meal together and celebrate Shabbat in story and song. You bring a side dish or dessert. We provide the main dish, Shabbat candles, challis and grape juice. $5.00/adult $2.00/child R.S.V.P. Contact Elaine at 336-1858 by March 9.
STORY
HOUR
Bring your preschooler to the
B'nai Israel Sifriya (Library) for a morning of Jewish tales and an introduction
to our most precious book, the Torah.
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PRESCHOOL FAMILY PATHWAYS…
are exciting activities for preschoolers and their families to enjoy synagogue, Shabbat, and holiday celebrations. They are open to all families with children 5 and under (including their older siblings!
Upcoming celebrations:
PJ Havdalah Saturday, March 6 at 4:30 p.m.
Preschoolers and your families: don your pajamas and fuzzy slippers and bring a picnic dinner to bid goodnight to Shabbat with storytelling, songs, sweet service, snacks and snuggles. R.S.V.P. to 335-5058 or gweinstein@congregationbnaiisrael.org
B'NAI
MITZVAH HAVDALAH GATHERINGS
Hosted
by a B'nai Mitzvah family and facilitated by a senior staff member, 4 to 5 B'nai
Mitzvah families gather at a family's home to get to know one another and share
in an informal Havdalah service.
B'NAI
MITZVAH FAMILY CLASSES
These
classes for students and their families take place several months before the Bar/Bat
Mitzvah. The families meet with members of the professional staff to learn the
history of the Bar and Bat Mitzvah ceremonies, discuss individual concerns, explore
ways in which family members can become more involved, and become accustomed to
the service at B'nai Israel.
SUKKOT
Decorate
the Synagogue Sukkah, enjoy a picnic supper under the stars and share in the Sukkot
family service.
SIMCHAT
TORAH
Make
your own flags and banners preceding the Simchat Torah family service.
SHAVUOT
PICNIC AND FLOWER PLANTING
Families
are invited to share in a pot luck dairy picnic before Festival services and participate
in a flower planting of the Temple grounds after services.
The
Jewish Family Bibliography
Jewish
Family & Life : Traditions, Holidays, and Values for Today's Parents and Children
by Yosef I. Abramowitz, and Susan Silverman, Golden Books Pub. Co., 1997.
A practical resource
for activities, "how-to" directions for family-friendly celebrations, as well
as explanations of observances.
Tears
of Sorrow, Seeds of Hope : A Jewish Spiritual Companion for Infertility and Pregnancy
Loss by Nina Beth Cardin,Woodstock, VT: Jewish Lights, 1999.
Living
a Jewish Life : Jewish Traditions, Customs and Values for Today's Families by Anita Diamant & Howard Cooper, New York: HarperPerennial, 1991.
- An excellent, accessible
book to learn about Holidays, Life Cycle Events, and general Jewish practices.

How to Be a Jewish Parent : A Practical Handbook for Family Life by Anita
Diamant & Karen Kushner, Schocken, 2000.

The New Jewish Baby Book : Names, Ceremonies & Customs-A Guide for Today's Families
by Anita Diamant, Woodstock, VT: Jewish Lights, 1994.
Motherprayer
: The Pregnant Woman's Spiritual Companion by Tikva Frymer-Kensky, New York:
Riverhead Books, 1995.

Parenting as a Spiritual Journey: Deepening Ordinary & Extraordinary Events into
Sacred Occasions by Nancy Fuchs-Kreimer, Woodstock, VT: Jewish Lights, 1996.
And
Hannah Wept : Infertility, Adoption and the Jewish Couple by Michael Gold,
Philadelphia: JPS, 1988.
- This
is more explanation of traditions and resources. Nina Cardin's book gives more
spiritual support for those facing such challenges.

Becoming a Jewish Parent: How to Explore Spirituality and Tradition with
Your Children by Daniel Gordis, New York: Harmony Books, 1999.
Ten
Attitudes of Highly Effective Jewish Grandparents: Patterns for Enhancing & Sustaining
Your Grandchildren's Jewishness. (16 page booklet) by Grishaver, Joel Lurie. Torah
Aura Productions, 4423 Fruitland Ave., Los Angeles, CA 90058, 1995. (800) BE-TORAH.
40
Things You Can Do to Save the Jewish People by Joel Lurie Grishaver, Alef
Design Group, 1997.
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discussions of ways to fit Jewish activity and discussion into a family's busy
life, without sacrificing the trip to Disney OR Shabbat.

If I'm Jewish and You're Christian, What Are the Kids? by Andrea King, New
York: UAHC Press, 1993.

Best Baby Names for Jewish Children by Alfred J. Koltach, New York:
Jonathan David Publishers, Inc., 1998.
Raising
Your Child to Be a Mensch by Neil Kurshan, New York: Atheneum, 1987. Out of print.

When Children Ask About God : A Guide for Parents Who Don't Always Have All
the Answers by Harold S. Kushner, New York: Schocken Books, 1995.

The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant
Children by Wendy Mogel, NY: Scribner, 2001.

Chocolate Chip Challah and Other Twists on the Jewish Holiday Table by
Lisa Rauchwerger, New York: UAHC Press, 1999.

Adoption and the Jewish Family: Contemporary Perspectives by Shelley
Kapnek Rosenberg, Philadelphia: JPS, 1998.
On
the Doorposts of Your House, Chaim Stern, editor, New York: CCAR, 1994.
- Jewish Rituals for
your home and holidays.

The Over-Scheduled Child: Avoiding the Hyper-Parenting Trap by Alvin Rosenfeld
and Nicole Wise, NY: St. Martin's Griffin, 2001.

Teaching Your Children About God : A Modern Jewish Approach by David Wolpe,
New York: Henry Holt and Company, 1993.
Mothers Who Think : Tales of Real-Life Parenthod Camille Peri and Kate
Moses, editors, New York: Washington Square Press, 1999.

The Kindness of Children Vivian Gussin Paley, Cambridge, MA: Harvard Univ
Press, 2000.
Internet Links
The
Jewish Parent Page http://www.uahcweb.org/educate/parent
Shabbat
Table Talk http://uahc.org/shabbat/
Building
Your Own Jewish Library http://uahc.org/educate/library.html
Reform
Jewish Outreach Recommended Books http://uahc.org/outreach/bib.html
Articles
for Reform Jews http://www.clickonjudaism.org
Jewish
site for 20's and 30's http://www.generationJ.com
Jewish
Family Life and Net http://www.jewishfamily.com
Interfaith
Family Site http://www.interfaithfamily.com
Dad's
and Daughers http://www.dadsanddaughters.org/
Product
Recalls http://www.kidsindanger.org/
National
SAFE KIDS Campaign http://www.safekids.org/
The
Parenting Project is an organization dedicated to addressing our nation's
crises of child abuse, neglect and abandonment, teen pregnancy and overall violence
by working to bring parenting, empathy and nurturing skills education to all school
age children and teens. http://www.parentingproject.org/
The
Foundation for Grandparenting http://www.grandparenting.org/
Jewish
Music
Click on the link to Jewishmusic.com at the top of this page. See
especially Joe Black, Craig Taubman, Jeff Klepper or Kol B'seder and Debbie Friedman.